He Would Like to Sleep

Hubby is a type 2 diabetic. It runs in his family, but his food choices and sedentary lifestyle proved to increase his chances of developing it. He was diagnosed several months ago. Being a type 1 I noticed key symptoms in him such as peeing a lot more often, being more thirsty, etc. So I checked his blood sugar and it was over 200. The next morning I checked it again (fasting BG) and it was in the 140’s if I remember correctly. So we went to the doctor. Can you believe they diagnosed him off of my word of what his BG’s were?! No blood work was done until later (which confirmed the diagnosis).lee32

Anyway, this post isn’t so much about his type 2 as it is his sleep apnea. Diabetes comes with a lot of high risk of developing many, many, many other conditions; especially if you are an uncontrolled diabetic. Sometimes, however, it is very difficult to know if the diabetes helped in the development of a condition, or if the condition helped in the development of the diabetes.  Sometimes it becomes a vicious cycle of conditions aggravating and perpetuating one another. I’m not saying his apnea caused his diabetes or his diabetes caused his apnea, I’m just pointing out that things often seem to be linked and effect each other.

I don’t know how long Hubby has been a diabetic, type 2 can be active for a very long time before one starts to have noticeable symptoms and is finally diagnosed. I do know, however, that Hubby has had sleep apnea for at least 18 years, he just was never tested or diagnosed until this past month (money and insurance issues).

Who is at risk for sleep apnea?

  • Over weight persons
  • Large necks
  • Narrow airways
  • Males
  • Senior Citizens
  • Heredity
  • African Americans
  • People who make use of depressants (alcohol, sedatives, tranquilizers, etc)
  • Smokers
  • People with nasal congestion

There are other risk factors, I’m sure.

Sleep apnea is basically when your airway is obstructed while you sleep and/or you stop breathing in your sleep. This can be very serious and obviously is dangerous, and can have a very bad impact on all aspects of your life, especially health. As with many disorders, sleep apnea comes with levels of severity; mild, moderate, and severe. When Hubby did his test it came back as moderate sleep apnea. Also there are two types of sleep apnea, Obstructive Sleep Apnea and Central Sleep Apnea. Hubby has Obstructive.

Symptoms of sleep apnea include:

  • Snoring
  • Feeling tired even though you sleep a full night
  • Waking up suddenly needing to take a deep breath and/or being told by a witness that you stopped breathing during sleep
  • Waking up with dry mouth and/or sore throat
  • Headaches (especially upon waking)
  • Waking up a lot during the night
  • Attention and memory problems

leemaceHubby and I have been married for going on 16 years, and have been together for going on 18. All of these years I can guarantee you that he snores very loud and often. I can also guarantee you that he often stops breathing in his sleep. Within the last two or three years he’s been experiencing severe fatigue every single day, to the point that it started causing problems in many parts of his/our life. Also, he has been experiencing serious memory loss and attention span issues.

All of this is because he is not getting restful sleep. Basically, he has become severely sleep deprived.

So he asked our primary doctor to refer him to a sleep study to be tested for sleep apnea.  When he got in to see the specialist, he was asked a million questions and discussed many things with the doctor.  By the end of the visit the doctor was positive that Hubby has sleep apnea.  They sent him home with a test kit.

That night I helped him hook up to the machine. It was supposed to turn on by itself and start working as soon as he was in position but it didn’t.  I took the initiative to reset it even though they told us not to.  I figured it was better to ignore the rules and make the machine work than to let the entire test be ruined because the machine wouldn’t turn on when it was supposed to. I reset it and it then worked properly.

The next day Hubby dropped off the machine at the doctor’s office. They downloaded the information which did exist (something we were worried about seeing as things didn’t go smoothly) and a few days later Hubby was informed that the results indicated he stopped breathing 28 times an hour! This gives a diagnosis of moderate sleep apnea (apparently 30 or more times would be severe).

Complications of sleep apnea include, but are not limited to:

  • High blood pressure
  • fatigue
  • problems with medications and/or surgery
  • liver problems
  • sleep deprived partners (YES!)
  • Depression
  • Loss of libido

2015-08-21 09.40.31It took way too long for the specialist’s office to file and request our insurance to allow Hubby to get a CPAP (Continuous Positive Airway Pressure) machine. But after 2-3 weeks the OK was finally there and Hubby got his machine.

I went with him to pick up the machine and go through the training. It’s pretty easy and awesome. The trainer discussed a few things about Hubby’s health and one thing he mentioned was that he sees a lot of diabetics who also have sleep apnea. The training lasted about an hour and by time we were done Hubby had gone from being a bit nervous to being very excited.

Hubby used his machine for the first time last night. He says he does feel more rested but it’s still early to see real results because it takes time to get used to wearing a mask at night and being forced to breathe, and also I’m sure the settings on the machine are going to have to be adjusted to better suit his needs.

I’m really happy for him! I can hardly wait to see my rested, alert, happy man once again!


3 thoughts on “He Would Like to Sleep”

  1. My husband started using his CPap about 10 years ago, shortly after his father did. Within a week or two of starting, both of them had drastically higher energy levels. My DH was a type 1 diabetic with renal failure at the time, and despite his kidney function going down during that time period, his energy levels went up. Seriously awesome contraptions.

    (and yes, I use the past tense when speaking about my husband’s type 1 diabetes and renal failure: he has since had a successful kidney / pancreas transplant)


  2. My wife has had diabetes that had been uncontrolled and it led to atherosclerosis, coronary artery blockages which led to a left bundle branch block which led to Congestive Heart Failure. This condition is not curable, but can be tolerated with reduced functionality. Sleep apnea is important, but make certain the other issues are not present as you will find that sleep apnea will be the last of your concerns. Also, as an Environmental Hygienist, please note that the sleeping cat is contaminating the air with cat dander, which is 2.5 microns in size and therefore does not settle out of the air. It is a potent allergen that is continuously airborne, affecting the airways of many folks. It could be a contributing factor that is reduced due to the CPAP, but I doubt that CPAP has a HEPA filter and probably uses room air.


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